Pretzel Posted October 1, 2017 Share Posted October 1, 2017 After my ex and I recently broke up, I had a brief spell (2-3 days) of making all the mistakes, calling and asking to meet, crying, texting him pleading for us to meet up one last time so I can try to understand/process what's happening. I was in shock and disbelief. He didn't respond to my calls after telling me firmly that he can't help me. But i felt that was good for me - it made me realise how truly over it is. It has sent me into a pit of deep depression but it reinforced the fact that we aren't together anymore. I then sent him a short message when I made the firm decision to go NC, saying 'I get it, sorry for bombarding you these these messages, I just haven't been rational. I love you, I can't talk to you anymore again or for a very long time'. He has now responded a week later, just saying 'I'm here if you want to talk in future, I'm sorry for not responding before but it wasn't to be cruel'. I haven't responded at all. I instinctively wanted to write back to say 'I know and thank you', but then I went against my instinct and said nothing for now as I don't want to break NC and come across as weak, but I also don't want to come across rude, or as if I am sulking and for him to think there's any animosity. Thoughts? Link to comment
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