Is he interested in me?

[lucia031]

Okay so I met this guy on Tinder who didn't waste any time setting up our first date. He even suggested that we get ice cream instead of drinks so we could have a "real organic" conversation. The first date went really well! Before it was over we set up a time and day of the week for a second date. He didn't text me on the day, so I texted him in the afternoon asking if we were still on. He texted back that he was going to reach out to me + gave me details on where he was taking me (he did a lot of research based on where I live and what I said I liked). The second date went pretty well, I think. He mentioned a few times throughout the date "we will have to do blah blah blah together, and I will have to cook for you one day etc." We kissed and briefly mentioned a third date, but never solidified any plans.

 

When I got home from date #2 I texted him (because I realized I didn't say thank you) this is how the convo went (mind you, the convo was partially in spanish so I will try and translate the best I can):

 

Me: Since I took a regular Lyft, I'm already home. lol. Before I fall asleep, thanks, again for dinner. I had a really great time. Even kissing in the dirt (AKA the park).

 

Him: Since no one is taking lyft line at this hour, I'm already home. De Nada morena linda (which pretty much means you're welcome pretty girl).

 

He didn't mention that he also had a good time. My question is, do you think this guy is still interested? Also, would it be too much for me to text him again? I like him so far, but don't want to come across as desperate. A guys point of view on this would be very helpful!!

[Starlight925]

How long has it been since you had the date with him?

 

And no, don't text him again. You've already texted him and said you had a good time, and he responded, so he knows you're interested. If he's interested in another date, he'll take it from here.

[JessicaJones84]

I kind of agree with last post. Although, he did set up the last date so perhaps you could suggest the next one?

[lucia031]

The date was last night. I was thinking of texting him tomorrow and starting convo and seeing if he brings up a 3rd date. I was in a long term relationship before this and this is my first time dating in a long time. I just want to make sure I'm not coming on too strong.

[Honeycomb8]

A guy will ask you out for a third date if he's keen. You don't need to do much imo.

[electricorchid]

We kissed and briefly mentioned a third date, but never solidified any plans....

He didn't mention that he also had a good time. My question is, do you think this guy is still interested? Also, would it be too much for me to text him again? I like him so far, but don't want to come across as desperate. A guys point of view on this would be very helpful!!

 

He flirted with you by calling you morena linda. Thats enough to let you know I think... those two words went a long way. I wouldnt worry about it at all, I think this dude is interested, stop texting him first from now on be patient.