Question. I am returning to dating after 20 years of celebacy. I had breast implants 30 yrs ago th

[honkytonk]

Okay I hope you can read that. I might have put it in the wrong spot. This is my first post.

[honkytonk]

Okay I hope you can read that. I might have put it in the wrong spot.

The implants are deflated and not attractive. Should I get them fixed? Am I being silly to worry about it? Men do not seem to be too interested in me an d i think this is the problem. It is also makes me feel less attractive. I really would like to hear a mans perspective.

[luminousone]

I'm not a man, and you did not ask ghis. But I think you need to consult with your doctor about the condition of the implants. What is supposed to be the life span of your implants? Have they been leaking toxic stuff into your breasts? I think it is important to have t hat knowledge.

 

As far as men's preferences- it just depends on the man. Some prefer large breasts, even if it means implants. Others may prefer the more natural look. I think ultimately you should do what makes you happy, and them find a man that is compatible with that.

[honkytonk]

I'm not a man, and you did not ask ghis. But I think you need to consult with your doctor about the condition of the implants. What is supposed to be the life span of your implants? Have they been leaking toxic stuff into your breasts? I think it is important to have t hat knowledge.

 

As far as men's preferences- it just depends on the man. Some prefer large breasts, even if it means implants. Others may prefer the more natural look. I think ultimately you should do what makes you happy, and them find a man that is compatible with that.

I talked to a Dr and he can repair them for 9000 nothing is in any danger just my self esteem. Life span is. About 10 yrs so these are way over their span. Its embarrassing. Saline just reabsorbs into body. I'm too old for this stuff