JustMizz Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 So, the guy that took me out as a friend a while back contacted me this week. He apologized for how he acted and asked to take me out. He asked if it could be a real date and not a just friends date. I said yes and asked what he had in mind. He said honestly, I can't wait to get back to those lips! I promptly told him I wasn't looking to rush things and wanted to wait until/if a relationship was established before things got too physical. I said this because the last time we went on a real date, he kissed me and tried to put his hands all over me then invited me to his house. I declined. Anyways, he basically flipped out. I tried to explain that I am setting boundaries and sticking to them in order to respect myself and give a potential relationship a healthy start. Unfortunately, he didn't seem to care. He kept saying just because some other guy had sex with me and bolted doesn't mean he would. (He knew all about the first guy I wrote here about) Which is true, but I felt if he was seriously interested in me, he would have respected my decision to wait. From his reaction, I felt he was more interested in sex than getting to know me and he has since been blocked. So, did I do the right thing? I feel I did, but I would like some feedback. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pleasedonot5 Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 You did the right thing, absolutely. Good for you for setting boundaries and sticking up for yourself! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustMizz Posted September 23, 2017 Author Share Posted September 23, 2017 You did the right thing, absolutely. Good for you for setting boundaries and sticking up for yourself! Thank you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
milly007 Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 You definitely did the right thing, JustMizz; no doubt about it! Good for you! If he was genuinely interested in getting to know you, he would have respected what you had to say and your boundaries, and taken you out regardless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 I'm sorry, I misunderstood your post with my first reply. Good for you...Well done! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chelsea54 Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Good job identifying a jerk! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
figureitout23 Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 I don't really remember which guy it was but good for you for sticking to your guns. If he wanted to get to know you, he wouldn't have gotten mad. Maybe don't tell potential men too much about your romantic past early on. I say this because I wonder if, this guy for example, saw you as an easy target. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustMizz Posted September 23, 2017 Author Share Posted September 23, 2017 I don't really remember which guy it was but good for you for sticking to your guns. If he wanted to get to know you, he wouldn't have gotten mad. Maybe don't tell potential men too much about your romantic past early on. I say this because I wonder if, this guy for example, saw you as an easy target. Yes, I dated him before the first guy I got all wrapped up over and reached out to him when the other guy stopped talking to me. I over shared with him, for sure. That won't happen again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 "I can't wait to get back to those lips." What. A. Loser! Yes, you did the right thing. Good on you JustMiz. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tygerlyly53 Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 "I can't wait to get back to those lips." What. A. Loser! Yes, you did the right thing. Good on you JustMiz. It sounds like he was only interested in one thing. I am proud of you, JM, for sticking up for yourself! I am going to try and do the same for myself. Good job! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JustMizz Posted September 23, 2017 Author Share Posted September 23, 2017 Thanks, everyone! It definitely made me feel good! See? I'm learning. Lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
reinventmyself Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 nicely done! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted September 23, 2017 Share Posted September 23, 2017 Smart girl! Dude is only interested in sex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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