nicsau Posted September 20, 2017 Share Posted September 20, 2017 long story short. Dated for 3 yrs, moved across the country to live with him for 1 yr. Still both loved each other, but i couldn't handle being away from my friends/family and we both had a lot of stress. I moved back to my hometown, a few months later he brokeup with me. I did the begging/etc for 1month then he blocked me on everything except one chat platform which we hardly ever used together, and we stayed NC for 6-7months. 6-7months later, I had to contact him regarding tax issues. In the last month ( now 9mnths post brkup) have been msging on/off, and recently (last week) msging daily about some random topic (nothing ever about our personal lives or our past rs). Often convo ends when one of us has to go to sleep, he always messages goodnight (whether it because he has to end the convo, or i've said i have to go)- and something along the lines of lets talk tomorrow/carry on convo tomorrow. I don't bother replying goodnight (as i feel replying goodnight and saying goodnights is something ppl in a rs do, which we are not in one). I still believe we would have worked if we didn't rush into living together (because of locations). At the same time, I'm not lookign to get back together unless he showed a massive change in his attitude and managed to get back my trust (i felt very betrayed when he brokeup with me, it seemed like he could just give up everything we had ) I guess , the reason why i'm thinking about this, is because I know that he is not the type of person to reply instantaneously with friends, but everytime i message he reads and replies right away, unless he has changed his whole personality since we split. But he was the type of guy who would read a friends message and let it sit until he had nothing else to do , and then he would reply. Whereas , I know he stated when we wer together, that I'm theonly person he would reply to straight away. I don't want to get back together right now anyway because I've got my own things to focus on, but I guess I want to be able to keep it on the cards. He did say when we brokeup, that maybe in 1-2yrs if we were in the right situations we could get back together. Link to comment
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