Bewn231 Posted September 19, 2017 Share Posted September 19, 2017 Hi all, Me and my girlfriend of nearly 5 years have been happily together. We bought a house last year, and got a dog not long after. I do love the dog, but he is very bored and destructive most of the time. I gave talked to her many times about this and tried literally everything to stop his boredom. I don't think it's fair on the Dog, to keep him locked away in the garden by himself all day (both work full time), but she blindly in love with him and won't see reason. This is making me doubt our relationship, as she just goes quiet and miserable when I try to bring this up. As I think he's be happier with someone who has more time for him. Am I being unreasonable? . To further complicate things her brother has recently moved in to our small house, and shows no sign of saving money to move out. I do love her, but these things make me doubt our relationship and us. I can't remember the last time we did something other than lounging on the sofa and watching TV. Last weekend I went away to see some friends, I was so happy to spend time away, and know I'm at the typical agitated state as I feel she won't see reason with this dog situation. Any advice is appreciated Link to comment
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