lonshon Posted September 18, 2017 Share Posted September 18, 2017 I have been with my husband for 15 years, married for 10. Over the years I have dealt with verbal abuse and anger issues from him. Four years ago he bought a mobile home, but the home was unfinished, no kitchen counters, running water or stove. We live in a rural area,so there is a well nearby.He moved us in with the intent of getting all these things fixed. Its been four years and no progress. I cook by hot plate, microwave and convection oven. We have two children 10 year old and a 7 month old. Two months ago I got fed up with everything. The house, the way he talks to me everything, i left. Besides everytime he got mad at me he would tell me to leave his house, normally i would leave and come back, after about a week when he asked me to. But this time i got an apartment. I feel its best for me and the kids, but he just doesnt see that. He feels the kids and l will be better off with him, in his house. I was going to get a job move on with my life. But he wants us to move back, and i dont see any proof things will be differnent. He claims he wants his kids back at home and cant deal with us coming over on the weekends. And now im wondering do i really want this marriage? He has called me names like idiot, retard, dumb.He absolutly hates my family, doesnt want me around them. (Although there was a incident that happened last year,involving he and my brothers and perhaps my mother, i wasnt there and there was alchol involved, that resulted on a horrible fight.) I feel bad because im leaving and he has no family here other than me and the kids. Also he has been going through problems with the law. But the kicker is he blames most of this on me, the reason he is in so much trouble he says is if he had a good woman at home he would not be on the streets and getting in trouble. Which is also the reason why he hasnt finished the house. He says i left him when times got hard or uncomfortable for me. With hurts me the most because after 4 years of living with no running water, unfinished floors, not even a sink to put dirty dishes in, i think i have been more than cooperative. I guess i just wanted others opinions, i have no friends and my family is not much help without being biased. Link to comment
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