Torn between 2girls

[Scotman]

Firstly I want to admit I have got myself into a stupid situation and I know I have done wrong.

I set up a company with a girl 5 years ago strictly professional. As time went on I got to know she was a single mum and had a daughter Aged 3 ( after 2 years) I started to take her and the daughter out and had a good time. after a time we started to date, she had a very difficult relationship with her ex and was still living in the same house. Eventually I gave up my 1 bed apartment and rented a 3 bed house. They moved in with me. About that time I met a very nice professional woman and started dating her. 5 years later I live with the second girl and she wants to get married. A few weeks ago she found out that I was still supporting the other girl and her daughter and went mad. Our relationship has not been good and I understand her hurt etc. The company that I had with the first girl ceased trading 6 months ago, I have since got a job and have been paying the rent etc from my salary. I feel responsible for the kid and can't face the thought of her been thrown out in the street.

I would really value some advice on how to get out or this situation. Is my relationship and prospective marriage ruined? If I get married how do I tell the first girl and the kid?

At this moment in time I feel like giving up and running away but I know I have to work things out.

Look forward to your help

[eidetic]

Hello,

 

Where is your heart? With the original business partner and her child? Or with the second woman?

 

It sounds like you had an endearing family situation with the first woman. How did you come to be dating the second?