KSMITH2014 Posted September 17, 2017 Share Posted September 17, 2017 So my boyfriend of 7 years decided to leave me two weeks ago, because I confronted him about something that was really bothering me. The weekend before he ended things with me he had gone out for one of his guy friends birthdays, and this is where he met his friends girlfriend. The next morning his phone was going off constantly, so I asked who it was. He said he was getting pictures of all the guys from his friends girlfriend, so I thought nothing of it. Eventually this simple conversation turned into an all day and night thing. He would text his friend's girlfriend from the time he got off of work to the time he went to bed, and he started making sure he never left his phone in a room with me, which made me suspicious. It finally got to the point to where he would barely say two words to me all afternoon for a week straight. By this point I was fed up, so after he went to bed I decided to read the messages, and they consisted of things like her complaining that she needed to lose weight and him telling her she was beautiful just the way she was and she didn't need to change a thing, and she would vent to him about her and my bfs friends relationship problems, and what really upset me was her calling me a b**** to my boyfriend and him not defending me! He told her he couldn't talk right now because I wanted to spend some time with him and she said "whys she being a b****" and he didn't take up for me which really hurt. So I decided to confront him. I told him calmly I wasn't okay with him texting her so much, that it was interfering with our relationship, and that I didn't appreciate her calling me names and him letting her. He was pissed that I went through his phone, said that I didn't trust him and he deserves privacy. So he said he was done with me and left that same day. So my question is, was I wrong to go through his phone and confront him about this? (Sorry it's so long) Link to comment
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