im heartbroken

[mikeymikey]

So i have been on and off with this girl for 2 years. 3 days ago she said whe wont like me more than i like her and that shes afraid of hurting me anymore so we should stay friends i told her we would have to stop contact because i need to get over but i cant stop thinking about her im not sure if i fought enough for her what if i changed a little bit how should i move on im still having a little hope which sucks what do i do

[pippy longstocking]

From what I can see from your previous threads mikey , this has only ever been a friendship and for two years you have tried to be with her , have tried to go no contact and she has never reciprocated your feelings . I think after two years you have to give this up now , you don't or shouldn't have to change for her and I am sorry to say , again , after two years there isn't anything you can do . She has expressed many times ( or so it seems ) that she isn't quite feeling it as anything more then friends .

 

You can't waste any more of your time and your emotions on someone who doesn't feel the same about you and you cannot possibly try and maintain a friendship , you don't want to be friends , so don't try ....walk away from this situation and her for good.