I love this girl in my office but she don't show any interest in me

[Raveskumar]

I'm seriously in love with a girl working in my company , in deferent offices. We know each other for a year now but as colleagues. I tried breaking the ice and started becoming informal with her . She responded and behaved like a Freind . Now she found that that I can help her with Canadian immigration , she started talking more openly but after 2 weeks , she's not

Responding much to my what's app messages . I tried to invite her for dinner outside on weekend , she said she will Think about it . Then I asked her last Sunday , she said she's busy with her friends . Now she don't chat much during office hours. I'm desperate to date her and even I want to marry her . Guys pls help me win my lady love . I'm really getting stressed out here. She don't understand, I love and triying to avoid me . I'm 4 years elder to her ... I'm truly in love with her . Also she s our managers niece , so I'm trying to be careful in proposing to her !! Pls advise me

[abitbroken]

I'm seriously in love with a girl working in my company , in deferent offices. We know each other for a year now but as colleagues. I tried breaking the ice and started becoming informal with her . She responded and behaved like a Freind . Now she found that that I can help her with Canadian immigration , she started talking more openly but after 2 weeks , she's not

Responding much to my what's app messages . I tried to invite her for dinner outside on weekend , she said she will Think about it . Then I asked her last Sunday , she said she's busy with her friends . Now she don't chat much during office hours. I'm desperate to date her and even I want to marry her . Guys pls help me win my lady love . I'm really getting stressed out here. She don't understand, I love and triying to avoid me . I'm 4 years elder to her ... I'm truly in love with her . Also she s our managers niece , so I'm trying to be careful in proposing to her !! Pls advise me

 

She is not interested in you.

And she is not your lady love -- you have a crush.

Please accept her decision. Please find ways to meet women other than at work.

 

You are acting too desperate. Surely there are other ways to meet women. And if you keep pursuing her and she doesn't like it, she might tell her uncle/aunt who is your manager that your advances are unwelcome and it could hurt your job.

[Pleasedonot5]

She is not interested, and nothing you do can MAKE her interested.

 

You would have better chances with her, ironically, if you just moved on to someone else.

[Capricorn3]

I'm seriously in love with a girl working in my company , I tried to invite her for dinner outside on weekend , she said she will Think about it . Then I asked her last Sunday , she said she's busy with her friends . Now she don't chat much during office hours.

I'm desperate to date her and even I want to marry her

 

First of all, you only believe you love her. You have never even spent any time with her, never dated her, don't even know her, except as an acquaintance. That is not love. That is infatuation and an office crush and even thinking about proposing marriage is extreme to say the least.

 

Secondly, she has made it fairly obvious that she is not interested. It is best you move on.

[Andrina]

Who do you know who has proposed to a woman whom he's never even had one date with? It takes a minimum of a year, and better two, to know if someone will be a good spouse for you. When a woman says she's busy when you ask her out, know that an interested woman will always give you an alternate date for when she is available.

 

Because you lack the ability to read people's behavioral clues and because you let your emotions take you to unrealistic places, I highly recommend some psychological therapy sessions so that you don't wind up in a bad situation you could've avoided.

[abitbroken]

Who do you know who has proposed to a woman whom he's never even had one date with? It takes a minimum of a year, and better two, to know if someone will be a good spouse for you. When a woman says she's busy when you ask her out, know that an interested woman will always give you an alternate date for when she is available.

 

Because you lack the ability to read people's behavioral clues and because you let your emotions take you to unrealistic places, I highly recommend some psychological therapy sessions so that you don't wind up in a bad situation you could've avoided.

 

If he is India, its not unusual --- but even so - a formal introduction is made. But i totally agree -- she is CLEARLY not interested in seeing him.

[Snny]

It takes a minimum of a year, and better two, to know if someone will be a good spouse for you.

I dated my husband for 7 years. Engaged for 3 years. I got to know him better as a person after 4 years of dating. Within our seven year time frame, we were changing as people... growing and maturing together.

 

A year is barely enough.