Starlight925 Posted September 14, 2017 Share Posted September 14, 2017 I have a lengthy thread about my recently ended relationship already, but I wanted to start a new one. Ended 1.5 year relationship due to inconsistencies, and insecurity, surrounding now-exBF's constant "receiving" of communications from exes. Swore up and down, back and forth, that he wasn't initiating any of these communications; however, there were multiple exes, constantly communicating via texts, Facebook posts, phone calls. For 1.5 years, I was called insecure and reminded repeatedly that he hadn't started any of the texts, yet the text strings were always deleted. I never snooped, but I told him it made me uncomfortable that he always had his phone face-down. I do not believe he ever physically cheated, but I do believe that he has a "validation addiction". He needs to feel validated, adored, by females. He unfriended the particular exes (3 at least, many more actually) who were sending Facebook messages. He did this over a year ago. So we are in NC, and I have to admit, I looked at his Facebook page (we are no longer friends, but his is set to public). Yes, he has already re-friended one of the exes. The one who caused the most trouble actually. He also is already on not 1, not 2, but FIVE dating sites already. I know this because he had called me last week and I straight up asked him. I actually re-opened my profile on the site he & I met, just to check the site out, and he views me daily, repeatedly. As in, 30 minutes ago, for the 3rd time today, already. Seeing that he's already re-friended the ex who he supposedly hadn't spoken to in over a year confirms my suspicions all along: I wasn't crazy. I wasn't insecure. I wasn't nuts. He is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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