SK123 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 I recently posted a thread about how my ex girlfriend and I had a good conversation about why we broke up and honestly after that I felt hopeful that we would be able to work things out eventually. However I need some help about how to approach this because I don't wanna ruin anything. Since we mostly broke up because we lost ourselves (our lives had started to revolve solely around each other) I've been spending the last days focusing on myself, reviving old hobbies, hanging out with friends etc. After our last conversation, my ex girlfriend and I have been texting back and forth casually, and well yesterday, I snapchatted her a picture of how I was working on music again and I got this bitter text saying "I'm glad you're doing so well without me". I didn't reply because I was so confused, and then she sent another text saying "sorry I'm tired". I told her that I'm moving on with my life and trying to be happy, and she said that it seems like I'm happy and relieved that she's gone because I'm finally doing things that I didn't do anymore when I was with her and have the chance to get with other girls again (we jokingly talked about me picking up girls). She also said that if I'm this happy without her then she won't make an effort to get back together with me if she changes her mind in the future. I told her it's not fair of her to say that because I can't wait around for her... Honestly I don't understand her at all. She doesn't wanna be with me but I'm not allowed to be happy without her either? I do still want her back because I love this girl to death and I feel like the issues we had are fixable, but I'm not sure what the best approach is. Do I go no contact? Do I continue to show her that I'm doing well? Thanks for any help. Link to comment
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