angela0823 Posted September 12, 2017 Share Posted September 12, 2017 Hello, guys. Okay, so I was with him for about 2 months.. and I broke up with him and at the time I made it quite clear that I don't do friends with my exes and a week after the breakup, I texted him and we met I was quite drunk. I asked him whether he still likes me and he said yes. He also said you're so cute when youre drunk and he kissed me, we kissed a lot. we didn't have sex, because he said he doesnt want to take advantage of me. idk. and then the very next day, I was embarrassed for what I did, I couldnt quite remember what I did and what I said my friends said if he really cares about you then he would text you first so I waited and he texted me in the evening. And he made it clear that he doesnt want to get back together right away and he said he doesnt want me to expect him to come back even though he said "I miss you too" So I said, "okay then I cant just pretend to be cool around you, I should let you go." And then he didnt reply. so I thought that's over. and I thought I've kinda made it quite clear that I don't want to be friends with my ex. about a month later, he texted me, recently, asked me how things are going and I have a big project in a month so he said he remembered a big project is coming and wished me the best and he asked me when the project finishes and I replied and he asked me whether I want to go to somewhere with him once i'm done with my project. I was so confused because, again, I thought I've made it clear that I don't become friends with my exes. But then I just don't wanna overthink and assume things so I just said "ok, why not" And recently I checked his social media(I haven't since we broke up), and seems he has a new gf. idk.. seems like things are not quite going well tho. It's just all my guess. I'm not sure. but definitely after the breakup, he dated someone so my question is... do you guys agree that I've made it clear that I don't wanna be friends with my ex? why did he text me out of the blue? especially, when he has a new gf. what do you guys think he's up to? btw, he is a kind of person who still contacts with his exes. that's why I tried to make it clear twice.. that I don't do friends with my exes like the first time we broke up, and the last time when he said he didnt want me to expect him to come back. Thanks for reading and your time Link to comment
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