Does She Like Me Or Just Being Friendly?

[gotham]

Recently I have been talking to this woman a lot, we usually meet in the morning at the bus stop. At first, it was the usual "Good Morning" and minding my own business, but then as I saw her being more friendly by smiling and maintaining eye contact for longer, I realised it was time that I should take the initiative and talk to her more.

 

About 2 weeks ago on Friday, I saw her waiting for the same train as me, so I approached her and introduced myself to her and she introduced herself, that day we hit it off pretty good, we went all the way traveling back home while talking to each other. The more we talked, the more open she become, I found out that she has 2 kids (well grown ups kinda 15 and 17 years old) she asked me IGN I've a GF, I said not currently, ain't searching at the moment eirher and when I asked her, she said the same, but she's currently single at the moment and not searching for anyone, during the conversation I noticed that she extended her one leg in my direction as she became more relaxed talking to me.

 

After that it became almost a ritual, we talked to each other a lot, asked how our day went, this and that, she asked me how did my test went last week, I was surprised that I only briefly mentioned it and she still remember it, I said we'll get the test back next week, so I am hoping for a positive result.

 

Then the next week she asked me, how were my results, I told her I scored well and out of my surprise, she extend her hand touched the back of my shoulder, almost like patting but felt more like touching / praising at the same time.

 

I always noticed that her feet are always pointing at my direction when we talk, when we leave for our work, she always wishes me a pleasant day, yesterday she said to me "if I don't see you again today, i wish you a very pleasant day and weekend more importantly good luck on your next test" I said "thank you" to her and wished her a pleasant day as well.

 

From what I can tell, I am definitely interested in her, what is making me reluctant is, this could be all friendly gestures, which I am misinterpreting as "flirting" or being interested in me.

 

What do you guys think?

[tattoobunnie]

Feet pointed at you by a woman can mean nothing. It's only men, who point the feet. I mean, I have tons of conversations like this with random people and people I know through something all the time. But, once you said the touching part, hmm, that's interesting. You both said you weren't looking for anyone, so I dunno. Kind of strange to ask her out once you've told you you're not dating at this time. I would just get to know her, and talk about places you'd like to try out, a new food or restaurant, and if she says, "oh, me too!" Then ask her out, and go there.

[Keyman]

Have you tried asking her if she'd like to grab a coffee?

Then while you are having that coffee, have you tried asking if she'd like to grab a drink one time?

[Wong78]

Feet pointed at you by a woman can mean nothing. It's only men, who point the feet. I mean, I have tons of conversations like this with random people and people I know through something all the time. But, once you said the touching part, hmm, that's interesting. You both said you weren't looking for anyone, so I dunno. Kind of strange to ask her out once you've told you you're not dating at this time. I would just get to know her, and talk about places you'd like to try out, a new food or restaurant, and if she says, "oh, me too!" Then ask her out, and go there.

 

 

This is so true!!