pollypocket Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 I'd been seeing a guy for 2 months and we'd been sleeping together, he was full on intense and moving so fast with me and then when I went on vacation for a week he continued to contact me as normal but nearer my return "poof" nothing. On my return I messaged him saying "Please tell me if you're not interested in seeing me again. It sucks to be left in the lurch". He responded saying he was just letting me enjoy my vacation and he had been quite busy which is fair enough and he suggested we go out the following day which we did. He was his normal touchy feely self with me but said he was too tired for me to come back to his and I know he had a lot to do before work the next day but I still felt something was off with this. We were to meet again that week and at the last minute he cancelled because he had been kept late at work and was tired. (Kinda saw that coming because all week he said he'd been working late but he often did that anyway). Again, I asked him to just be honest and let me know if he wasn't interested and not lead me on. He said he was upset he couldn't see me but didn't want things to move too fast (when he's the one who was going fast to start with) and that he really wanted to see me but would be back late and it wouldn't be fair on me coming over so late and he asked if I was annoyed at him. I said no, that I understood and told him to have a good vacation as he was then to go on vacation for a week after that. He replied he would keep in contact but he didn't and now he's back. Although he was last to text saying he would be in contact, I didn't text after that because I felt the onus was on him to get in contact if he really wanted to. The whole time he was away, he was on the online dating app pretty much every day so he can't use no signal as an excuse. I don't understand why he wouldn't just say he's not interested especially since I have already asked him twice and instead he says he really wanted to see me but has some crap excuse? In a few days I plan on sending him a message saying I really liked him and had a good time with him and that it was a shame he couldn't be upfront with me and it shows what kind of person he is. I know he'll come back with a crap excuse but I am so done. I just want him to know it's unacceptable to leave someone hanging after all the things he would say to me and plan with me. I don't think someone 'better' came along because it looks like he is still on the hunt online everyday. I also wonder if it's because I didn't respond to him when he made a joke about me dating lots of guys at once but I wasn't. Any advice appreciated Link to comment
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