joyce Posted September 9, 2017 Share Posted September 9, 2017 I met this guy at my summer job about two months ago. We became “work friends” but then a week before I left he asked me out. We went out and had an amazing time. We quickly made plans to hang out again before I left and it went great again. He texted me immediately afterwards both times to let me know how much he enjoyed spending time with me. Right before I left he told me he was really going to miss me, and that he wanted to keep seeing/talking to each other since my school isn’t actually that far (~2 hour drive). When I got to school he started texting me every day, just chatting and asking me how I was doing and flirting a lot. It wasn’t long before we planned a specific weekend for him to come visit me, and also planned for me to come home a few weeks later to see him. After about three weeks of texting every day, saying goodnight every night, and lots of flirting and excited planning for his visit, he texted me on Tuesday like he does every day. We chatted back and forth for a bit like always, then he just randomly stopped answering. I figured he got busy with something and didn’t really worry too much. Then later that day, still nothing. Again, I wasn’t worried yet. Not until the next night when it had been over 24 hours without hearing anything which is really unlike him. I texted him a nice greeting and asked how he was doing. No answer after two more days. I know he’s been on his phone because he viewed my snapchat story. HE initiated the continuance of the contact in the first place. HE initiated all the texting. HE initiated the visit. HE told me more than once that he was really starting to like me. Literally one day before we were making plans for what we would do when he visited. As far as I can tell this guy was really into me. I’m left wondering what the heck happened? At this point do I just assume I’ve been ghosted? Do I assume he’s not coming to visit anymore? He just seemed so into me and there was no warning at all so I’m finding it so hard to believe. If I still haven’t heard from him by next week do I just let it go or do I try to contact him one last time, just at least asking if I did something wrong or if he’s still coming to visit? Link to comment
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