katrina1980 Posted September 8, 2017 Share Posted September 8, 2017 Hey guys, so this is an update or a spin off on the multi-dating thread I started a couple of weeks ago. It's not about me but multi-dating in general. The new paralegal started at our office and we've become good friends, she's VERY cool. Currently she is dating three different guys and likes them ALL. She is also having sex with all of them! Not at the same time obviously, lol but she is attracted to all of them and can't decide who she likes best. They all know she's dating others and have told her they are as well. Everyone is cool with it. I asked her if she has told them she is also having sex with these other men, and she said no they don't discuss that. Only that they're all dating others. They have not asked if she is having sex with others nor has she asked them. She said it's just presumed since they're all multi-dating, that this includes sex. She is NOT bothered by this at all! She claims she really likes all of them but there is no jealousy or anything. From them either! She is actually very happy with the arrangement, and I could tell she meant it. She got no judgment from me whatsoever, to the contrary I was like "wow, girl, you sound like you've got it all together!" And since she's not bugging any of these guys for exclusivity or a commitment or even a "relationship," they're all like "chasing" her (for lack of a better word), however, SHE does her fair share of texting (double texting sometimes even) and "chasing" them too! Everyone seems happy! Like I said no judgment from me, but her carefree and casual attitude surprised me especially re the having sex with all of them. I think I mentioned in my last thread that while I AM multi-dating (have a date with a different guy tomorrow night), I don't think I could have sex with more than one at a time. And to update on the guy I spoke of in my last thread, we went away last weekend and he proposed engaging in this sex game that involved suffocation that I wasn't comfortable with, and ever since then, I have been turning off to him. He assured me it was safe but I've researched it and discovered that people have actually died engaging in this game! Do you guys know anything about such sex game? I am like extremely open-minded and adventurous sexually and we've engaged in some sex games prior, but THIS one I felt very uncomfortable about. He also told me he thinks he is "falling in love" with me which, after only six dates, also made me very uncomfortable. I also thought it might be a manipulation of sorts so I would feel comfortable engaging in this suffocation sex game. Honestly, I don't think I even want to see him again after this. Glad I waited to get to know him better before going exclusive! Link to comment
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