beautybee Posted September 8, 2017 Share Posted September 8, 2017 My ex and I were together for 7 years. We have a kid together. During the course of our relationship, he cheated, lied, I think he may have gotten someone else pregnant near the end of our relationship, but she miscarried. He nearly started a new life with another woman. During one of the times we separated in our breakup and he made clear that we were not together and he did not want to be with me, I started seeing someone else and we ended up having sex. My ex found out, broke his heart, but he wanted to make it work. So we agreed to work on it. But of course after that we just went downhill, ended the 7 year relationship, he moved on immediately which he was probably involved with the new woman while we were still together. 2 years later,recently we decided to try again. I feel like he's grown a lot, as he does about me. But he continues to bring up the past saying I betrayed him and that after his grandma passed I should've been there for him and that he has nobody anymore. It bothers me because still with everything he's done to me, I forgave, still here trying to help ignite his passions, build with him etc etc. I have forgiven myself for the mistakes of the past but he hasn't, seems like he blames me more than anything. He says he never meant to hurt me even though he did multiple times. My question is, what do I do? Do i wait for him to get over it? Or am I wasting time? I am doing everything necessary to gain his trust back, but I don't think he's working hard to gain mine back. I asked him does he want to make this work, he just keeps saying "know your place" no "yes or no" answer. Link to comment
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