Itsobvious Posted September 8, 2017 Share Posted September 8, 2017 I met someone online who had only been out of his relationship for 6 months. We were having so much fun... easy, spontaneous... but I could feel that he was ambivalent about his break up. She left him. I told him to tell her about me. He seemed surprised... but I knew it would change their dynamic. And it did. 16 years and 2 kids together. They have a lot of history and a lot of frustration. I have chosen to distance myself and stop contact for at least 8 weeks. We both feel the connection...but I think the mom/ dad of your kids always wins. This is really hard for me because it was like in the movies the way we clicked. Has anyone got a story or words of hope?? Link to comment
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