StuartM1 Posted September 8, 2017 Share Posted September 8, 2017 I met a girl online about 2 months ago and we have been on a couple dates. When we met she was goin through some stressful stuff with her job and was stressed due to a family dispute. I thought over the weeks her low mood etc would pass but yesterday she told me shes on medication for depression. As well as her low mood, she sort of has this "victim mentallity" and its quite frustrating as i try to remain as posititve as i can through difficult situations. She is also very guarded, like she gives little away about herself and says that she has been hurt badly in the past so she prefers to just take thongs slow. I am sexually attracted to her and there has been a couple of times were sex might of happened but it didnt go anywhere as she said she doesnt want to as she knows what men are like but says she'l not keep me waiting to long. She just finds it hard to trust but she understands that it must be difficult trying to get to know her and she tells me just to try an be patient with her. I am a caring and compassionate guy and thats what i have been trying to do, but im just abit like.."isnt the start of a relationship supposed to be fun, with flirting and all the rest of the good stuff.. it just seems like im hitting a brick wall with her and a bit of a struggle. I Like this girl and i do want to be patient, waiting for her to drop her guard abit and relax but at the same time im afraid that im.wasting my time..like is this the way she actually is.. Can anyone relate or share some sort of advise?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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