Starlight925 Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 1 1/2 year relationship, just ended due to my long previous post, long story short: -Ex-GF's and his ex-wife texted, emailed, called, Facebook-posted constantly. He always said he "couldn't" do anything about it. -When we met, he actually had 2 GF's going, although he says he wasn't exclusive with either one, they both cried and begged and pleaded, for months afterwards and continued to contact him for well over a year into our relationship -Was still active on at least 3 OLD sites, several months into our relationship, then lied when I asked him -Still talking about 2 different women he met prior to me, over 2 years ago, and how pretty they are, how much he liked them, and how he's still looking them up to see what they're up to, despite the fact that these were 1 date each --Defensive, deflecting, and Blame - which is what I actually changed his phone contact name to. It's always my fault, that I can't let this go, or why do I mention exBF's (only when he's asked about my past), or blaming me for being insecure. I have a dummy OLD profile that I've had for years, no pic. I used to use it to browse when I didn't want people to see that I viewed them. We broke up days ago, and he's been calling me ever since, crying, misses me so much, can't think about anything else, "devastated". Yet, there's his profile, with a new picture that he took a few days prior to our breakup, like, to get ready to put a profile together. Because I viewed him, he saw it, and even though there's no picture, he wrote to "me" to ask about me. Note: I'm not interested in dating right now, at all. I just decided to log in with my dummy profile, and he was the first profile (most active). I'm thinking of toying with him a bit.....so immature.....please stop me....lol. FWIW, I haven't cried one single tear. I feel relief. I don't have to worry about this cr*p anymore. Link to comment
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