Learningagain Posted September 6, 2017 Share Posted September 6, 2017 I know that after a breakup healing and growing as a person are the most important steps to take. Now, assuming we agree on this point but would like to discuss how to get your ex back, what are the best ways to do this based on your experience? - Some say go NC and if they want you back they will contact and if they dont contact then move on, some say do it for x number of days, some say dont do NC - Others say that going NC could allow your ex time and space to miss you less and get used to living without you (which usually is the main source of pain for them as they have lost attraction and dont feel the same, so its just the habits that are difficult to get over for them) and therefore by the time you re-contact them they will be much less likely to want to give it another chance and you will have lost that chance. -Also there are those that state that when your ex leaves you then you will not be getting them back, rather you will be trying to re-attract them just like you did before you hooked up there are so many "strategies" and concepts and ideas out there it drives people broken up with into so many different directions. I know that the best you can do is move on and rebuild a better you, so lets assume everyone is doing that, but lets discuss how to get your ex back in terms of approaches and what works in what scenario and so on, im sure there are those of you out there who are curios about this and there are those who have managed to get your ex back so please share. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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