thatarmyguy90 Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 What should I do? I entered a relationship going on 3 months with a beautiful woman and 2 children..i can't have children and always wanted to be a dad so it's beneficial to myself the father is a dead beat sells drugs, there past relationship was abusive, has been arrested multiple times and has even raped her as one of the children were unplanned and he always cheated on her. My girlfriend went to court for supervised visitation and got it through meditation. I don't have an issue with the kids seeing there dad at all and I believe there father should be in there lives as I understand it's not fair to the children. My girlfriend on the other hand.. although she's very communicative with me talks to him on the phone and messages him. The supervised visitation doesn't bother me unless she has to go to see him with the children. Recently she has to do the visitations while I'm at work.. And I can't go. I know I need to trust her but when it comes down to someone with a past like that, how can I, am I making the right choice involving myself in this situation as it is very stressful for myself and although she says she understands my feelings nothing I say or do alters how she goes about doing things. & then makes me feel guilty if they don't see there father on account of creating an arguement. What do I do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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