sarahb2247 Posted September 5, 2017 Share Posted September 5, 2017 Me and my boyfriend made plans to hang out one day after he got off of work. Two hours after we were supposed to hang out he messaged me saying he had to stay at work late. He asked if I'd be mad if we didn't hang out and I told him it was fine but I was very disappointed. He then told me that "trying to make me happy ends in nobody happy". On multiple occasions I tried reaching out to him to apologize. Each time he wouldn't even acknowledge I said anything or would change the subject. I asked if he still felt that trying to make me happy ends in nobody happy and he replied with "kinda". I asked why he felt that way and he said "I already told you. hence why I said it". Each time I have ever addressed a conflict in our relationship he will ignore me basically. It's been two weeks since our argument and I'm still very confused what's even happening or where I went wrong. We were together for three years. He tries to text me everyday but never mentions the argument and if I do he won't say anything. I know I don't deserve to feel uncertain in a relationship, but at the same time I don't want to give up on someone I love when they are going through a tough time. I have reached out to him on five occasions to try to fix things and no progress has been made. Not to sound extreme but sometimes I wonder if he ignores me as a punishment. I feel like in a healthy relationship an argument as little as this wouldn't drag on for so long. I'm curious what people have to say about the situation and let me know if you guys have any advice for me. Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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