sidart Posted September 3, 2017 Share Posted September 3, 2017 I need some advice please. Its gone beyond talking to her, now I must make my decision. I will list some points. Dating for around 5 months. So not long at all. Things have been going really well but she constantly puts me down. Says shes way to pretty for me and can do.better and I find it annoying. We spend all our time together, she cant really spend much time alone. Im in a new city and I try to make friends but she recently got annoyed by a girl friend of mine who id organised to go for coffee with. Needless to say I had to cancel. I offered to introduce her if it made her feel better but she was convinced im up to no good. She wants to move country and I said I would comprimise, stay here for another year and ill gladly move with her once id seen the sights. But right now she has been saying she doesnt trust me and I hate it. She is saying she doesnt know if she will stay and is deciding what to do, so im feeling really insecure right now. Her job is up in 2 weeks and I said she could stay with me to save on rent so she has as she was money.worried. Now all of a sudden she has sprung on me that shes going to south america with her recently single friend instead of staying here to look for a job for 2 weeks. She wont give me any security that she wants to stay and I think I may have pulled a bad move and say until she does im gonna end things now. I really cant deal with not knowing whats happening and I know her and her friend are going to party. I had trust up until now but she wont tell me if she wants to be with me. Im going crazy I just want to end things right now. She says she loves me but I dunno. Just to note she was 6 months out of a 3 year marriage when we got together. I feel like a rebound I cant stop her going but I dont want to be miserable Link to comment
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