I think I blew all of it

[AhmedFawzy]

Hello all, I wish u all have a good time, I went with my family to the baron palace hotel in hurghada to spend our summer. we stayed 7 nights... there are animation team and they care about guests, do activities etc.... one of them was a girl named Natalia she is smart and she loves her work and I attracted to her I was dying to get even with her till my last night in the hotel. Because of her work and she can't hang with any guest who could cause to her big problems. her work start at 9 AM till 11 PM. So I succeeded to date her for 10 mins , She told me meet me near the pool and she came to me ❤. we talked to each other like 2 hours from 11:30PM till 1:15AM and I gave her a necklace at the end of the day, she hugged me 3 times and last hug when we were about to go. she gave me her what's app and Instagram. but it seems she is not active on it (only 1 pic on insta). about the what'sapp.. she is rarely reply with me.. she is from Belarus IDK.... maybe she is too busy for a reply ? my last couple messages delivered but not seen,however she is active... and she active only 5 mins and go off... and so on till 11PM. then she go offline and she sleep . I want to try hard to contact her and her is mys suggestions: 1- Should I wait her call me ? 2-Should I call her and ask her for a 2nd date then go to hurghada?? (out of baron hotel ?) . 3- she will go to Belarus this week to continue her studies there.. Should I wait her until she go? any help please ! . that make me frustrated. and I will assist with more details for all of you Thank you.

[MissCanuck]

I'm sorry OP, but she is not interested.

[AhmedFawzy]

No way... like I could go to the hotel and impress her.. or call her again..

wow it's over ?

[MissCanuck]

No way... like I could go to the hotel and impress her.. or call her again..

wow it's over ?

 

What is over? You hardly know her, my friend. You had one nice conversation with her. That isn't dating.

 

Listen, a girl who is interested will reply to you. She had a nice chat but it's clear she does not want to build something more. She isn't that busy that can't take the time to answer you. She's just not interested in keeping the communication going.

 

I don't mean to sound harsh; I just don't want you to get attached to a random girl who is essentially a stranger and giving you no signals that your feelings are mutual.

[AhmedFawzy]

Yes I understand what you said.... I can date her again.. or something??

Like tlak to her tonight and ask her.. yes Or no to make it clear that's it

[MissCanuck]

You haven't had a first date yet, OP. A conversation at her workplace isn't a date.

 

You can try asking her, but I would personally advise against it. She isn't even reading your messages at this point.

[AhmedFawzy]

But it was after her work dude... I mean we can't go out of the hotel together.. if any manager saw us.. I will make her some troubles and problems... So we were like criminals on the pool we choose the farthest pool and we stayed there so no one of the managers could see her with me.... and what about my gift to her it's the heart of the ocean necklace.. doesn't seem clear to her.. maybe As I said she is busy cause of feast days now they only work no time for talks.. I want just not to be unfair with her . I will try 1 more time i will call her then go to her... maybe.. if she said no.. So it's over

Sounds good ?

[MissCanuck]

But it was after her work dude... I mean we can't go out of the hotel together.. if any manager saw us.. I will make her some troubles and problems... So we were like criminals on the pool we choose the farthest pool and we stayed there so no one of the managers could see her with me.... and what about my gift to her it's the heart of the ocean necklace.. doesn't seem clear to her.. maybe As I said she is busy cause of feast days now they only work no time for talks.. I want just not to be unfair with her . I will try 1 more time i will call her then go to her... maybe.. if she said no.. So it's over

Sounds good ?

 

Exactly. Hence why it wasn't a date.

 

It's also not true she has no time to talk if you've seen that she's been active on What's App. She has time, she's just not responding or even bothering to open your messages.

 

Since you seem insistent, I would advise calling. Do not show up at her workplace. Don't put her job in jeopardy like that. It's not respectful and not appropriate for you to come to her place of work, particularly when you know it's against company policy. If she doesn't respond to your call or she says no, leave it at that.

[AhmedFawzy]

Good.. thank you my Friend .. That's kind of you

1 more thing plz...

She finsh her work at 11 PM... So Should I text her with SMS and tell her That I will call her after the work

Or just call her directly ?

[MissCanuck]

Just call directly.

 

She hasn't been reading your messages so I don't think there's any point sending another SMS/What's App/etc.

[AhmedFawzy]

u know my friend,I'm dying here, why? I have a good side and bad side

Good side: she is from Belarus and she work as animator in hurghada for 15 hours which is so bad and make her tired , make her don't want to speak with anybody..that night we met she showed me on what's app something like bot conversion to make her learn from Arabic to Russia and from Russia to English and so on. So, she open for that purpose only on her work day,feast days too is very hard in hotels in Egypt so more stress etc////

Bad Side: she ignore me and don't want to reply my all morning and night texts (maybe she like that or maybe not). and she not interested anymore in me. no what's app too.. all delivered not seen etc...

These 2 sides fight each other inside me...

If I told you about her : she is smart,friendly, lovely, her work is in her first priority and I like that and she is beautiful too.. i don't want to lose her cause we didn't date or something. I want to go to her and make her feel that I'm beside her tell her about my real feelings and see.That's it. i want to try hard for her. If you have any more solution tell me I will call her tonight and We will see (Yes/no) and I will told you her.

The purpose of the message that I will tell her I will take 5 mins from her late time before she go to sleep.. I think my chances is low if I go directly maybe she think like" oh he want to take 1 or 2 hours talking and I'm tired and want to go to sleep".. u understand me ?

I'm so thankful my friend.. really thank you

[MissCanuck]

I'm not sure I can give you other advice, simply because I don't see enough interest from her side to pursue anything.

 

I think you are getting ahead of yourself. You have all these wonderful things to say about her, and she may in fact be a great girl, but you hardly know her. You've had just one conversation with her, from what I understand. What are you basing all these feelings on?