Pregnant Girlfriend says she doesn't know if still in love.

[tattoobunnie]

I didn't read all the posts; I just know how she feels. The wooing does help; because once the kid comes, it's no longer about her anymore. Any support she is not feeling from chores around the home, it magnifies so much. And while she was okay with not getting married then, your body is changing, life is changing, and while I don't know her, I can speak for tons of friends I know who didn't get married, but had kids, and they secretly tell me how it eats at them so much. All that just feeds into a level of distrust and resentment. It's not like bam, you now have a baby; she is physically and mentally changing.

 

I really hope you are pitching in around the home. Because if you aren't, she will translate it that you aren't married, and won't help with the baby.

[MartinMac]

I didn't read all the posts; I just know how she feels. The wooing does help; because once the kid comes, it's no longer about her anymore. Any support she is not feeling from chores around the home, it magnifies so much. And while she was okay with not getting married then, your body is changing, life is changing, and while I don't know her, I can speak for tons of friends I know who didn't get married, but had kids, and they secretly tell me how it eats at them so much. All that just feeds into a level of distrust and resentment. It's not like bam, you now have a baby; she is physically and mentally changing.

 

I really hope you are pitching in around the home. Because if you aren't, she will translate it that you aren't married, and won't help with the baby.

For the record.. I work from home. At least 70+ hrs a week and I still find time to do most of the cleaning and even cooking. She comes home from work mostly tired and does little cleaning unless I start nagging. Trust me Miss... She doesn't know how well she has it made here. She must've forgot. I feel shes taking me for granted. Ain't too many guys out there that would put up with her shannangans. Her best friend that we always had double dates with is married, had a child and is now considering divorce because she found out he's been talking to a younger girl and also found out he's been doing coke. Here I am fighting for my little future family and that dude is taking his for granted. I'm told my girl when she broke the news to me "and we thought we had big problems".

[MartinMac]

I didn't read all the posts; I just know how she feels. The wooing does help; because once the kid comes, it's no longer about her anymore. Any support she is not feeling from chores around the home, it magnifies so much. And while she was okay with not getting married then, your body is changing, life is changing, and while I don't know her, I can speak for tons of friends I know who didn't get married, but had kids, and they secretly tell me how it eats at them so much. All that just feeds into a level of distrust and resentment. It's not like bam, you now have a baby; she is physically and mentally changing.

 

I really hope you are pitching in around the home. Because if you aren't, she will translate it that you aren't married, and won't help with the baby.

You should at the very least read my original post.

[MissCanuck]

Any chance she has met someone else?

[MartinMac]

Any chance she has met someone else?

It was my worst fear. I asked. Multiple times. I'm pretty sure if she had the courage to tell me what she did I'm pretty sure she would confess to that if it were the case. I'm confidential she hasn't. I may be dead wrong but she's always home if not at work.

[chitown9]

I am wondering how the counseling is coming? Has it helped? chi