Klocks27 Posted September 2, 2017 Share Posted September 2, 2017 Hi, this is my first post here. I need some advice very badly and quickly. I met my boyfriend in January of this year (2017) we didn't become a couple until April when I came back to visit him for a month. We met in Bahrain the day before I was going back to the US. For most of our relationship so far, it has been long distance. During the month i came to visit it was beautiful. He was easy to be around and we get along very well. We both love each other very much it seems. I went back to the US after that for three months. I don't have a lot of money so I had to wait to go visit him. He has a very busy career in Bahrain so for him to come visit me for a month is not happening. When I was away from him for the summer we kept in regular contact through texting and face time. So two days ago I came back to Bahrain to visit this time for three months and we agreed I would look for work while I'm here. I've been doing temp jobs back home so I could visit for longer periods. So when I returned to Bahrain my boyfriend had a sudden business trip to Turkey he couldn't cancel, so I came back to the apartment by myself for a few days, which was fine. He recently moved to a new flat which I've never stayed at before. My question about him cheating is that I found long dark hair in the shower, bathroom floor, and a few in the bed. My boyfriend has short grey hair, I have long red hair. This hair was black. And was on the side of the bed he doesn't sleep on. Also I found a prescription for stomach ulcers in the drawer with a women's name on it for June this year. I mean it's really obvious to me a woman has been to the apartment. My boyfriend returns in three more days and I'm not sure what to do. We come from very different backgrounds. He is Egyptian Coptic, and I'm American. We are both "Christian". This is still a new relationship and we both told each other we loved each other at the same time before I came back to visit the first time back in April. He actually is the nicest man I've been in a relationship with. He is like my dream guy. I love him so much. We have never had a conversation about being exclusive but I just assumed we were. I guess I couldn't assume. I'm feeling a little heart broken but at the same time I'm still hopeful. I don't want to accuse him when he gets back and ruin everything between us. But if I'm living here the next three months obviously this other woman won't be here. Maybe we need to talk about exclusivity. I'm not sure??? This is still a very new relationship. Please help! Although I'm in my 30s I have very little actual relationship experience. I have a lot of dating experience.. anyway. Need some suggestions, thank you! -Klocks27 Link to comment
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