MMOT Posted September 1, 2017 Share Posted September 1, 2017 Hi there! We have been seperated for just over a year. We have been in a relationship for 6 years and have a 20 month old baby together. Things started falling apart once she was pregnant. During March this year things seemed to get better again and I had hope we will sort out things. However another Man entered the stage which she was together for 3 months. In the meantime I met someone as well, but I did not get into a relationship as I was not ready for it! Since then my ex started acting a lot friendlier than before. Last weekend she invited me to a game reserve for the day. We went there with the kids and it was great fun. Wednesday I received a message that stated should we go again, and overnight. She was extremly friendly. There was nbo space at the reserve, so I suggested another place for this, only to get an answer SHE HAS OTHER PLANS NOW.....I was quite dissapointed. My Baby was with me and the other kids yesterday. Also her daughter that is from a previous relationship (She says Daddy to me) for the whole week. When I dropped the baby yesterday she was extremly friendly again. Asked if I did not want to stay longer which I did not do, as I had other commitments. My question is to you! Please advise me what to do....what game is being played here? I spoke to her 100 x but she does not speak to me. Thanks guys! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danking Posted September 1, 2017 Share Posted September 1, 2017 Sounds from this info she obviously has feelings for you. She just doesnt quite know how to go about them. Guys always overthink and read into everything with an ex (im doing it myself with my childs mother). My advice would be to remain cool and calm, be a good guy to and for her as i think this would reinforce her positive feelings for you. She may be concerned that another chance might end in more heartbreak. Patience really is a virtue with these things you just need to make sure you keep your cool with her be the guy she wants and it All could pay off! 😀 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MMOT Posted September 1, 2017 Author Share Posted September 1, 2017 Hi Danking, thanks for the answer! In a way yip I agree I do get the feeling she has feelings, not sure though as at the moment she sort of ignores me, but when I see her or drop of the kid she is more than friendely. The ignoring started once I said there was no Space to overnight at the game reserve. Oh and I was especially surprised that she mentioned we should overnight. She broke off with me actually not me with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Danking Posted September 1, 2017 Share Posted September 1, 2017 I think its normal to be slightly cold when your not physically there... she may not realise shes ifnoring you or the affects her actions have on you.... i think your in a good place with her though as when she does see you shes friendly with you! Dont get your hopes up toooo much but it sounds like theres a slight desire when your not there to see you! So continue with what how your acting as it seems to be working! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MMOT Posted September 1, 2017 Author Share Posted September 1, 2017 Thanks for that! Bad thing is I will be away for some time. Other thing is she is suddenly also with my mother. Not really communicating but sending lots of nice Whatsapp Pictures. I am obviously geting none. Do really not know at the moment how I should handle this. Why? She really broke me by moving out and I am afraid it is going to happen again!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MMOT Posted September 1, 2017 Author Share Posted September 1, 2017 What I forgot to mention is that she is constantly telling everyone she hopes I get a new woman in my life.....! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustysuit Posted September 1, 2017 Share Posted September 1, 2017 That woman really makes no sense. Best not to think too much about it and whatever happens, happens. You'll still have to see each other because of your kid, so if she really has feelings, she'll have plenty of time and opportunity to act on them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MMOT Posted September 1, 2017 Author Share Posted September 1, 2017 That woman really makes no sense. Best not to think too much about it and whatever happens, happens. You'll still have to see each other because of your kid, so if she really has feelings, she'll have plenty of time and opportunity to act on them She is not a person who admits mistakes or wrong doings! Guess that is why she is going that way maybe, but I really sat down with her a lot of times only to be told what an idiot I am. So now I am waiting for her to talk, I guess! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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