lostandhurt Posted September 7, 2017 Share Posted September 7, 2017 This is all on you jrv. You broke up with her and went NC leaving her all alone and thinking it was over for good. In your mind it was a break so you could think things through but to her it was over. You were not together, it wasn't like you two got into a fight and she went right out and banged the first guy she met. It is also on you since you decided back then to get back together and then have yet another child. If this bothers you so much now why didn't it bother you then? Did you think getting her pregnant would somehow tell everyone "she is mine"? This is all ego driven and shows how insecure you are. It happened years ago and you still carry it like it was last week. In the last 4 years how many times has she even talked to this guy? once? never? I am curious what you need to think about all those years ago anyways? You need to stop blaming her and look in the mirror because this all lands at your feet. If you can't handle it then set her free so she can be with someone that will not hold a grudge for something that wasn't her fault and you can one day meet someone that has never dated anyone you know. Before long she will grow tired of this and leave you for good on her terms and your only memories will come up once a month when you pay child support. Time to either seek out a therapist or break up for good. Lost Link to comment
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