Lishy Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 Please help My sister has been with her husband for over 30 years - 2 Children who are adults I love my sister, we are more like best friends than sisters and we have always supported each other She started talking to a man online a year or so ago and decided that she wanted to know how it would feel to have sex with another man as the only person she had been with was her husband - So she did - He is married too and they met in hotels for sex Fast forward 6 months and he has left his wife and kid and she has left her husband blaming him for being abusive, he was abusive to her because he smelled a rat and knew she was playing away So he is living with family and she is in a place rented for her by her husband until the house sells OM's wife and child are distraught as he told them the truth but my sister has not told the truth and so they are still seeing each other on the sly and this is where the problem lays My sister has turned from a woman of principle to a lying cheat who is using everyone to her advantage, she has not told the truth because she wants money from her STBX and expects him to financially support her as she does not work plus OM has put money in her account - She shows no remorse for breaking up a family and walking away from hers. It is like she has become someone I do not know anymore She has the OM visiting her at the flat she is renting with her STBXs money and I think its wrong on every level and I really cannot support this The OM seems to not care about how much he has upset his son who is only 13 and his wife is so upset and has now obtained a picture of my sister so I feel its only a matter of time before she blows my sisters lies open I cannot bare this - My family will turn against me for knowing this and they will disown her for the lies and for letting her STBX go to therapy to deal with his jealousy issues when he was right all along and he had reason to be jealous! I do not want to be any part of this - The OM sounds like a and my sister cannot see what is infront of her, everything she tells me about him is a red flag - My family will also fall out with me over this if/when it comes out HELP!!!! I need to work out how I deal with this without falling out with her but still keeping true to myself???? Link to comment
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