MissMalici0us Posted August 31, 2017 Share Posted August 31, 2017 In June I asked my boyfriend (both of us 28 with a 2 year old child) if I could go to my mom's and straighten my head out. I was having a severe anxiety/depression episode and since he believes these things are made up I thought it would be best to take care of it on my own. I never intended on actually leaving the relationship, but through some sort up miscommunication we are now apart. While at my mom's I finally talked to a doctor/therapist, got medication and I feel a whole world better. Now that I am seeing things clearer I really want the relationship to work. I feel like we have a really great chance at having a fulfilling awesome relationship. He let me and our son move back in but says he isn't ready for a relationship until we work on the trust thing. He feels like I abandoned him. I felt like I was making him miserable with my anxiety and depression and only left long enough to get help. He says he isn't seeing anyone... but I don't know how to fix trust issues... how do I approach this. Of course before he let me come back I blew up his phone apologizing and trying to explain what was going on in my head. He would barely respond and when he did it was always short. We never stopped being 'intimate' even when I stayed with my mother. Anyway... He tells me he could 'probably' feel the way he used to for me again... and he doesn't think it is the end of us.. but I'm at a loss and don't know how to approach the whole win his heart back while living together but separated... any insight Link to comment
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