Unafied143 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 I've been with the same guy for ten years and he has lied to me since day 1. At first, it was small white lies, but soon progressed to lying multiple times a day. He would watch porn, knowing it made me feel insecure. He would lie and say he was tired, only to stay home alone to watch that garbage! He would choose that over hanging out with me! I went everywhere alone and was basically single. He chose to stay up super late every night instead of coming to bed with me. It then, progressed to chatting with random girls, having emotional affairs and hiding it all!! He would email these girls pictures of our family and with one particular girl, I didn't exist. He was a single dad, living alone. He would go out after work to the bar and I was never invited, nor was I even made aware of these outings. He would go to friends houses and I never even knew about anything ! He claims he hasn't cheated but he has fooled me the last ten years, so I'm not really sure don't know what to do? He's clearly a pathological liar that likes to look random women up on the internet. Do all men look? I'd be ok with it, if he were honest with me. Now, he claims he's gonna change, and that he's gonna be completely open and honest. Should I trust him? Cuz I don't!! Because of him, I don't trust myself, and I feel super insecure that I'm not giving him what he wants and desires. If he's always gonna look up other women, and it's part of who he is, why hide it ? I'm lost Link to comment
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