Peachy334 Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 So less then 24 hours ago my marriage crashed and burned I found out my husband had been talking to another women for over a week planning to meet up for sex so now that I know he was going to cheat on me I reached out to his mother she was extremely rude to me name calling me and all so I asked my husband to leave I packed all his things I just need to know where do I go from here . I know I do not want to work things out my trust is broken and I simply cannot take him back or work past this issues I feel embarrassed and humiliated by this whole situation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 I am sorry . I would get a lawyer and a divorce. If you dont have children you don't have to interact with his family at all after divorce. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 While I do heavily sympathize for you, I'm not sure what you're expecting looking to his mother for comfort or sympathy. Also, you can pack his bags all you want, but he's under no obligation to actually leave. As Victoria stated, if you know your trust is broken and can't be redeemed, it's time to do it official and start consultations with divorce attorneys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 27, 2017 Author Share Posted August 27, 2017 While I understand she doesn't have to give me comfront or sympathy the disrespect was very uncalled for Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 27, 2017 Author Share Posted August 27, 2017 Yes we have a 3 yr old daughter together and I will be contacting a lawyer as well I'm just in shock to be honest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 While I understand she doesn't have to give me comfront or sympathy the disrespect was very uncalled forWhat did you expect? "Yeah, my son's an ***hole?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 Well, then you have to deal with his mom. It may be ugly for some time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 27, 2017 Author Share Posted August 27, 2017 Not at all but really I didn't expect that at all it was very uncalled for and hurtful it's like kicking someone when they are already down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seraphim Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 Remember though she is HIS mom,not yours. Going to your own family would've been better . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 27, 2017 Author Share Posted August 27, 2017 Yes I know it just really sucks how things had to end I just hope we can co-parent without the drama Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
itsallgrand Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 Can you call a friend or family member to come over and spend time with you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Honeycomb8 Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 Good job on not letting it slide. Keep strong and your head up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 I can't imagine how devastating this must be, and I can't blame you for walking away. Having said that, keep in mind that his mother's reaction shouldn't be surprising, simply because blood is thicker than water. He was definitely wrong, but in his mother's eyes, he'll always be right. I'm sorry this happened, and you certainly deserve better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annia Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 I think that it's time to officially divorce if you feel that way. Also I wouldn't involve his family on this drama and try to solve this between you two and the divorce lawyers if that is the case. This is between you and him and you both need to do the best for your child. If you need to reach out to anyone to talk it's better to do it with your family and/or friends and/or a therapist if you feel that this all too much. I really hope you can make it through this pain and do the best for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Share Posted August 28, 2017 And you are right I shouldn't be surprised by his mother it's just all this is happening so fast and I'm still in shock Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Share Posted August 28, 2017 And yes I am going to move forward and divorce no matter how painful but I know I have friends and family that love and support me in this difficult time it's just a shock because I thought everything was fine especially when you have someone saying they are happy and in love with you and you get hit with what's really going on I been feeling like I got the wind knocked out of me since last night and I do feel humiliated and heartbroken Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 ^ We're here for you, Peachy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peachy334 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Share Posted August 28, 2017 Thank you I really appricate everyone kind words and advice I would be lying if I said I was ok but I'm really hurt but I know I will be fine again someday Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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