KathrynLyn Posted August 27, 2017 Share Posted August 27, 2017 I've been dating my current boyfriend for about a year and a half. We moved very fast from the moment we met, practically living together. He is my best friend and for the most part has been a wonderful partner. For the last two months or so, I have not wanted to be active with him. He tends to do things (like make jokes and be super silly) when trying to initiate sex that really turn me off. I have told him about these things and he has made some small changes. But these changes are not at all enough to make me want to be with him. More recently all the little things he does really irritate me. And I constantly feel so annoyed when I'm with him. I have told him about these things that annoy me, and again small changes for a while but still the same. I also have found myself being really attracted to other guys I see. I've never acted on these feelings but they are so strong and I find myself recalling wishing I was single. I just would never want to hurt him because he's such a great guy. I'm also worried because he wants to live with me when I get done with college (two years form now). And this worries me because I will never get a change just to be on my own and experience life as a young adult out of my own. I would be going from living with my Dad to living with my boyfriend. I feel like I need to try life alone. I do feel a strong connection for him, but I feel like it is turning into a friendship love, instead of romantic. He is such a nice, caring and funny guy, and I don't want to hurt him. Should I tell him more about the things that bother me? Should I just straight up end it? I'm not sure, but I would love some input from anyone! Thank you so much guys! Link to comment
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