SGHB Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 I could really use a reality check or advice on my current situation. I recently posted on the forum about my break up that happened with my girlfriend of 2 years. We've been broken up almost two weeks now. We live far from each other (6 hour drive). I want to drive to visit her but I don't know if that seems "creepy". She will not answer any of my phone calls and only text messages me. I play this scenario out in my head that by driving to her she will see how much I want to fix things and will talk to me. I broke her trust by text messaging another woman. Little did I know the woman would screen shot each and every text and send to my girlfriend. I was texting with this other woman for about 10-14 days -- give or take. It seems like my girlfriend still loves me and wants to somehow forgive me but she is overtaken by anger and sadness right now. I hear from her daily via text but most messages are negative and full of pain. I've sent her lavish gifts, dozens and dozens of roses, other gifts etc. Still no telephone call. I've considered "no contact" in order to give her space and "miss me" but I keep thinking the more I beg and try that maybe she sees how badly I want to be with her. Would really appreciate advice on whether or not driving to her apartment and knocking on the door would be a good or bad move. Link to comment
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