deedee911 Posted August 23, 2017 Share Posted August 23, 2017 My boyfriend of 8 months out of the blue told me yesterday he wants to apply for the police force in the city he is from. He moved to my city to be with me and has a job in a totally unrelated field. He said "I'm going to apply for the police force in October. I am going to do it" and said it with conviction. I got upset as it was a total shock and a random thing he said. I got upset and he got mad at my reaction. Here's some background. I am someone who does react at things that trigger me which he has expressed he doesn't like. He doesn't like my anger too. I've expressed to him that I'm stressed out from my job usually and suffer from anxiety. I explained to him what my challenges are and told him the importance of making me feel included with his plans big or small as I want to feel like I am part of his life. I've told him this several times and he still got mad at my reaction. He didn't say sorry for saying something that was clearly a shock to me! He said he needs time and is tired of us arguing. I feel like he doesn't see his part and how he upset me. Am I in the wrong for reacting to what he said? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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