lovekind Posted August 22, 2017 Share Posted August 22, 2017 Quite a read! He was from a different state but in the process of moving to my state when we met. He would come down every weekend and we would go to lunch or dinner or even a road trip and spend the whole day. I was initially extremely attracted to just his looks but then we started talking and became even more attracted. We had SO MUCH in common! Even down to our mothers doing weird at Christmas to make us believe Santa is real. Also he didn't have social media at all (like me) and when we were together would NEVER be on his phone. Extremely respectful qualities in this day and age. Here is where it gets interesting: We saw eachother almost every weekend and he would give undivided attention to me when I spoke. Never disinterested. When I dropped him off after a date he never ever tried to kiss me or be sexual at all.. He was touchy and feely when we were in the car/in public (holding my hand, resting his hand on my knee, arm in arm when it was cold) but that's it! Anyways i was going over seas for a couple of weeks and the night before my flight we went to dinner and ended up back at his place. We ended up having sex and I did get that first kiss. It was a really nice night. I stayed over and in the morning he was very lovey dovey. He told me to message him but I was busy getting myself ready to take off ....he double texted me before i got on the plane telling me he was thinking about me. P.s he's not much of a texter at all. While I was overseas the communication was good. Calling and texting. He was always writing long messages and pretty enthusiastic. I started to get very strange symptoms with my body. Was pissing blood, hurt to pass urine.....typical symptoms of a UTI ....i thought it was because we had sex and didn't shower after and that it would pass as soon as I got antibiotics. It didn't. It got worse. I got back home. And things went completely sour out of nowhere. He messaged me saying he wanted to go to dinner the day after I landed and I was really excited. I messaged him in the morning and did not receive a reply until 9pm that same day. He said he was "asleep and bed ridden all day and was flying back to his hometown first thing in the morning tomorrow" I was really shocked and couldn't understand how he could bail so easily. He also said he would be back on Sunday. So I waited till Sunday. He ended up calling me and sounded really happy and excited to be talking to me. He said "let's do dinner tomorrow night" I was happy and excited again. So tomorrow comes around. I message him in the morning to ask what time/where we are having dinner. No reply. I did my makeup/hair etc and messaged him again at around 5.30pm. No reply. He finally texted me back an hour later telling me something came up and he couldn't make dinner and that he would tell me about it "tomorrow or some time during the week". I was so ing sad and angry......this guy had literally bailed on me two times within 5 days.... He never messaged me. Also, in between this period, I visited the doctor and got a series of tests done because of what was going on with my body. A week had passed and I decided to message him again and ask to catch up. Never replied. The following day I went into the doctor and was shocked to find out I was carrying an STI. I asked so many questions and asked how and what causes it. SEX being the only way it is passed. Before this guy my last partner was a boyfriend and I had not had sex in 2 months. I had also been checked before I slept with this man and came back clear for everything. So it was definitely him who gave it to me. As soon as I left the doctors office I called him. No answer. I wrote him a message saying to call me immediately. No ing reply. I'm sitting here now wondering what I should do? To be given an STI and this person will not return any of my messages or calls?? HELP PLEASE. Link to comment
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