lv12345 Posted August 22, 2017 Share Posted August 22, 2017 Hi guys! I made this account specifically for this problem! I could really use any advice you would want to throw my way! About six months back, I started seeing this guy, (let's call him Bob). Anyway, between me and Bob it was never really anything serious. He came over to my place regularly, and I went over to his, but apart from that, nothing. He was never formally my boyfriend, and we never went on any real date. He's what you could call a player. This lasted for about three months, and then we simply stopped talking, which was fine by me because, as I said earlier, he wasn't my boyfriend. This summer, however, Bob and I both found ourselves in Europe. One drunken night, he called me over to his hotel and I obliged. We hooked up there, even though it wasn't our first time hooking up. Bob was there in Italy with his friends, and I ran into one of them while I was there, (let's call him Adam). Adam and I started talking, and I started to really like him. We like both of the same things and have a ton in common. After about a month of me and Adam talking, he asked me to tell him the truth about Bob, which I did. I told him EVERYTHING. From out nights together to that last drunken hook up in Europe. Adam told me that he didn't know it had been that serious, to what I told him that it really hadn't! He was still hesitant, and I told him that if he wanted to stop talking with me, he could. But he didn't. He invited me out on a date where we watched a soccer game, and it was honestly the best date I have ever been on. Better than with Bob. We still talk every single day, and I have a wedding this weekend, too which I invited Adam. I really want to start dating him, I like him a lot. I know he likes me too, given the fact that we have talked every single day. What can I do? He says he feels weird because Bob is one of his best friends, but I want to show him that I'm worth it! Any thoughts? Link to comment
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