Ballinmycourt Posted August 21, 2017 Share Posted August 21, 2017 Hello there.... OK, we all know that NC has benefits for people who broke up and want their ex back. But some sites state that it's best to leave your ex a message before you go into NC, something like: "Hi, I agree with you about the decision to break up, I really believe it was the best thing for both of us. I have some big decisions to make and I need some time to think them over. I would really appreciate it if you didn’t contact me during this time. I will be in touch when I am ready." Or at least stating that you're moving on and wish him all the best. The reasoning bring it might help to be friendly and respectful about it rather than going NC out of the blue which may seem childish and petulant to him. But on the other hand, the latter doesn't give the ex closure and it's more mysterious. The reason why I ask this is because I went into NC out of the blue after my ex of 5 years told me he's moving on with another girl. Now he texted me frustratedly telling it's strange I don't contact him, he asks: are we now just going to be strangers? He asks me to be friends but in a very pushy way. I think he's quite angry now I went into NC. I'm just wondering whether I did the right thing by going nc out of the blue. My last text to him was: I hope you're well and happy. What do you guys think? Link to comment
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