Elavohra Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 My ex has DM me a post on Instagram, which I have not yet checked out. The day before yesterday he had WhatsApped me a screenshot of a confession where someone has confessed him anonymously to that, he thought, or thinks it's me, however I didn't reply to him at all. As I am on my NC (today is the 34th day of my NC and I am going to NC till 16th of November or maybe forever who knows what lies ahead.) Anyway, I think I shouldn't reply to any of his sh*t. I am now totally getting out of that pain gradually and this is why I don't what to turn back. I am now more concern about what lies ahead. I just want to make myself more hotter and smarter in terms of everything from professionally to personally. I now no longer live with the regrets because I have lost the one who don't love or like me anymore and he's losing the one who loves me from head to toe. I believe if I'll reply to any of his sh*t, it may now eventually hinder my growth and hard work. Things happen for a reason, though I may not be knowing the reason yet, but I am firm that I am going to rise as a whole damn fire. (My gut feelings say that he'll definitely call me or text me in the near future. He'll definitely feel for me sooner. But moving in and taking care of myself is the only thing I am looking/ working for). Anyway, I want to know, whether I am on the right path or am I just too hard on myself or on him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 Why havent you blocked him from contacting you in any way? You slow down your progress when you let him have access to you by text or any other method. That is making it hard on you. Yes you are doing the right things but you can make it better by blocking him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loip9114 Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 My ex has DM me a post on Instagram, which I have not yet checked out. The day before yesterday he had WhatsApped me a screenshot of a confession where someone has confessed him anonymously to that, he thought, or thinks it's me, however I didn't reply to him at all. As I am on my NC (today is the 34th day of my NC and I am going to NC till 16th of November or maybe forever who knows what lies ahead.) Anyway, I think I shouldn't reply to any of his sh*t. I am now totally getting out of that pain gradually and this is why I don't what to turn back. I am now more concern about what lies ahead. I just want to make myself more hotter and smarter in terms of everything from professionally to personally. I now no longer live with the regrets because I have lost the one who don't love or like me anymore and he's losing the one who loves me from head to toe. I believe if I'll reply to any of his sh*t, it may now eventually hinder my growth and hard work. Things happen for a reason, though I may not be knowing the reason yet, but I am firm that I am going to rise as a whole damn fire. (My gut feelings say that he'll definitely call me or text me in the near future. He'll definitely feel for me sooner. But moving in and taking care of myself is the only thing I am looking/ working for). Anyway, I want to know, whether I am on the right path or am I just too hard on myself or on him? Seeing as you say yourself that you are getting out of the pain gradually and have the desire to look forward to your own future, I believe you are not being hard on yourself. I am also benefitting greatly from no contact, but my ex also does not contact me. So it might be a bit easier. I believe it is good that you did not check it out, because it might also be a set-back when you see it. So I think you are on the right path, you are protecting yourself and thinking of your own well being. I remember the earlier text on Whatsapp you send here, and I believe this might just as well be something similar. Mere bait. Possibly it could be the exact same image, as you did not reply to the latter one. He tries another channel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elavohra Posted August 19, 2017 Author Share Posted August 19, 2017 Seeing as you say yourself that you are getting out of the pain gradually and have the desire to look forward to your own future, I believe you are not being hard on yourself. I am also benefitting greatly from no contact, but my ex also does not contact me. So it might be a bit easier. I believe it is good that you did not check it out, because it might also be a set-back when you see it. So I think you are on the right path, you are protecting yourself and thinking of your own well being. I remember the earlier text on Whatsapp you send here, and I believe this might just as well be something similar. Mere bait. Possibly it could be the exact same image, as you did not reply to the latter one. He tries another channel. I checked it just now, but didn't reply anything. I seriously don't get the urge of replying him anymore, or perhaps now it's my time to lose interest in him however, its a post saying "tag a girl who's going to be very successful in the future" hahahaha it seems he still thinks I had confessed him that and now he's reciprocating me through that post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
loip9114 Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 I checked it just now, but didn't reply anything. I seriously don't get the urge of replying him anymore, or perhaps now it's my time to lose interest in him however, its a post saying "tag a girl who's going to be very successful in the future" hahahaha it seems he still thinks I had confessed him that and now he's reciprocating me through that post. Hahaha that's kind a funny! If you do not have that urge to reply and losing interest, then yes definitely do not reply on anything. It will only set you back, at best you'll feel nothing. So not much to gain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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