MJ1990 Posted August 19, 2017 Share Posted August 19, 2017 Hello everyone, I just found this site by googling, so not sure what to expect.. Anyway I need an advice, other opininon, I will try to be short and concise. Im a man, 29 yo, in a long relationship (over 10 years) with 2 year younger girl. We are still doing ok, no serious fights etc... But lately i noticed that our behavior gradually changed... She is more cold, and unwilling to go or do stuff with me (travel, go out, party, etc). We talked about it and figured it out.. we started improving it, and its working. I can say its going ok. Here is the issue, sex. I dont want to type walls of text what exacly was I noticing, but we detected the sex as a 2nd problem. Important fact is that we both had only each other sex-wise. Please do not judge, you dont know our relationship, we were 100% honest, always! whatever it is... So here it goes... She confessed that more and more, she has toughts... about other men. She doesnt want those toughts and I believe her. She often thinks what else is out there, she wants better sex esentially, more excitiment, more passion. I will use her exact words: "I sometimes enjoy the sex very much, but sometimes I just go through the motion and wait for it to finish. What if that someone other, does it better then you?". She ofcourse never asked of me to try that. Also I should point out that I am pretty confident, I dont think my looks or anything physical is the problem. I am proud of my rship... whatever you might think now, there are basically none rship that lasted this long with on problems, especially in out young age. I would do anything to make it right. Do you have some suggestion/tought about this? Also, my main question is: should I somehow let her...find out what else is out there? Link to comment
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