Ex just texted "hey"

[Amelendeza95]

3 weeks ago my girlfriend had dumped me after a 3 year relationship. so I went right into NC and Last week I got a text from her saying "hey" I chose not to respond. If she would have called me or texted me saying that she wanted to get back together I would have responded but not to just a simple "hey". What do you guys think ?

[melancholy123]

I think you should block her from being able to contact you as exes are exes for a reason.

[jennylove]

Good, I'm glad you didn't respond to such a superficial message of "hey". It's purely bait. Does he have me blocked? What will his response be? Do I still have my hooks in him?

 

I remember getting a "hey" text at about 6 weeks of NC. I got excited and replied "hi, how are you?" And he didn't reply for 3 weeks. Man did that sting!

[happyfrank]

Good for you! You didn't take the hook.

[Elavohra]

Cheers dude! You did absolutely amazing thing.

[Heavy]

Had the samething happen to me 3 times over the space of 5 months and I fell for it everytime. When I finally woke up to myself I blocked her number, untagged my name from every photo on social media, smashed my sim card and got a new number.

 

Problem fixed and I have never heard back from her again

[boltnrun]

"Hey" is a crumb. Something thrown out to see if you're still pining over her. She may have been bored, she may have not heard from the other guy, she might have been drunk. Who knows. But "hey" is the very bottom of the barrel as far as communication goes. Very, very lame.

 

I wouldn't respond.

[browneyedgirl36]

Ugh...the dreaded "Hey!" text. I've gotten a few of those in my day. As others have said, they're just crumbs, and as boltnrun said, LAME. Don't get sucked in by what amounts to NO effort whatsoever on her part. Just keep moving forward.

[IAmFCA]

Ugh...the dreaded "Hey!" text. I've gotten a few of those in my day. As others have said, they're just crumbs, and as boltnrun said, LAME. Don't get sucked in by what amounts to NO effort whatsoever on her part. Just keep moving forward.

 

Ha. How freakin thoughtful. Hey. Ya Whatever. Hey is for horses. Am I a horse? I think not. NEXT.

[Amelendeza95]

Ha. How freakin thoughtful. Hey. Ya Whatever. Hey is for horses. Am I a horse? I think not. NEXT.

 

Haha you guys are awesome! But yes unless she was to sent something like wanting me back and that she was wrong perhaps maybe. I've been enjoying the single life I am a personal trainer so flirting and getting attention with all these fish have been definitely helping me heal. Thank you guys

[cococly]

Just reply "Hey after a day or two and see what happened.

 

If you want to get back to your ex, replying just a simply "Hey wouldn't hurt anything.

 

Plus you have been on NC for 3 weeks now.

 

If you do want to get her back, you should not be cold to her when she reaches out.

 

IMO, just reply her within a day or two, with a simple message.

 

BE WARNED: Do not expect her to reply to you. As long as you accept her not replying to you, you are well-prepared mentally to reply to her

[Amelendeza95]

Just reply "Hey after a day or two and see what happened.

 

If you want to get back to your ex, replying just a simply "Hey wouldn't hurt anything.

 

Plus you have been on NC for 3 weeks now.

 

If you do want to get her back, you should not be cold to her when she reaches out.

 

IMO, just reply her within a day or two, with a simple message.

 

BE WARNED: Do not expect her to reply to you. As long as you accept her not replying to you, you are well-prepared mentally to reply to her

 

after being free this past month I don't think I want her back anymore she did me dirty and I don't want any part of that.

[No1]

All this drama from the word "hey"?

1. Accept that your X texted you, and the reason why does not matter... breathe, relax.

2. Read it and delete it

3. Go on and make yourself happy

 

Nothing to decode, nothing to decipher or decrypt. You just learn to let it go.

[cococly]

after being free this past month I don't think I want her back anymore she did me dirty and I don't want any part of that.

 

If you don't want her back, then Just ignore any attempts of her reaching out. Simple.