How to move on if i still have feelings for her?

[Rjw716]

Long story short my gf broke up with me about a month ago. She said she had lost feelings for me and wanted to remain friends and i said ok but at this point im honestly not sure if we are friends. We have had a few short and casual conversations over text since the break up but thats about it. Its been really tough for me and after a month im not sure that i have really made any significant progress in moving on.

 

My question is, how do you move on when you still love her. I cant help but feel this way about her so what do i do? I cant help it that i wake up and immediately think of her and i spend the day torturing myself, wondering what shes doing, stalking her social media, reminiscing good times and wondering what the hell happened and what i could possibly do to get her back. I know that in order to move on and feel good again i need to let go, accept it, and move on, but how can i do that when i still have such strong feelings for her and miss her so much?

[Rjw716]

^^ forgot to add we were together for about 10 months and we are in high school, thanks.

[Rjw716]

Ok one final thing. I do have massive feelings of hurt, betrayal, sadness, anger and general depression, but for some reason my feelings for her still outweigh those bad emotions, so it feels like im stuck. I feel hurt and betrayed but its not enough to just say screw her, anyone who would put me through this doesnt deserve me, i cant help that i still want her despite all the pain shes caused me. What the hell do i do? Just give it more time?

[13tailz]

I am in a kinda similar but also very different situation but I reckon u need a rebound to help put distance between you and help get over her

[happyplace]

Been there. Really the only thing to make it better is time. Quit the social media stalking it doesn't help, don't block her but hide her from all your feeds and resist the urge to look. I could go on about going out and having fun with friend blah blah, but really, your still in high school so make the most outta it, don't let some girl dictate your time, just chalk it up for what it is, a learning experience. I dated my high school sweetheart for 5 years before we split, thought my world was over, boy was I wrong. It gets better man, trust me, and there is a lot better and cooler stuff out there than one girl you met in high school. If you wanna chat about it pm me, I'm 30, been through hell and back, maybe I could give you perspective

[Rjw716]

Been there. Really the only thing to make it better is time. Quit the social media stalking it doesn't help, don't block her but hide her from all your feeds and resist the urge to look. I could go on about going out and having fun with friend blah blah, but really, your still in high school so make the most outta it, don't let some girl dictate your time, just chalk it up for what it is, a learning experience. I dated my high school sweetheart for 5 years before we split, thought my world was over, boy was I wrong. It gets better man, trust me, and there is a lot better and cooler stuff out there than one girl you met in high school. If you wanna chat about it pm me, I'm 30, been through hell and back, maybe I could give you perspective

 

Thanks man i appreciate it a lot. Probably the best advice i've heard on the situation thus far.