johnda Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 Hello, I will try to make this story as short as possible. I've been together with this girl for 3 years. I'm 24, she's 20 and we both never had any serious relationship before that(also virgins at that time). The 3rd year was the hardest because she went for studies in a new country so we had a long distance relationship. After many fights and small breakups, we end up breaking up for good last November so around 10 months ago. However we still talked a lot expect for a few small breaks of 1-2 weeks. But even though we kept our communication, we weren't together. Also when she came back, we had sex few times and we hanged out a lot but still she didn't want to be together again because of our previous issues(long distance relationship made me extermely jealous and very insecure so I kind of f*cked up on that area but I understood that and I tried to improve myself everyday). Long story short, she came back last month, we met a few times but after a huge fight (because we couldn't agree on some things) we stopped talking again. In that time she met a new guy and they kissed a few times, and now they hang out a lot. I came in communication with her recently(1 week ago) and we talked a lot and she said she still have feelings for me but she says she needs space and time. I asked about the other guy and she said that its too early to get in a relationship with him but as far as I know they make out (no sex) each time they meet. The main reason shes not getting into a new relationship with him is because she will leave again for another year so she doesnt want a long distance relationship. But she says that she still loves me and have feelings for me and she just needs time and maybe some day in the future we can be together again. If she needs space, why is she hanging out with that guy, that she obiously started developing feelings for as well? This doesn't make any sense to me. I'm thinking of cutting all communication with her but its too hard and for some reason I still hope that she will come back. Will No Contact help in this case? What should I do? Thanks Link to comment
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