300miles Posted August 14, 2017 Share Posted August 14, 2017 Hi everyone I've been in my ldr for a year and we see each other around every 3/4 weeks. A lot of the time it is me calling my boyfriend or texting him first because I am the less busy one out of the two of us and I do struggle with the distance more. We normally speak on the phone at least twice a day. We try to set times for this especially at night because that is the way it always has been. Last night me and my boyfriend had a two hour conversation about issues we have been having, I am very insecure at times and this passes off into my relationship and causes issues and I guess makes my boyfriend feel like he can't make me happy, which he can but I am insecure. I worry that he will find someone better than me. My negative thinking really annoys him and I am trying to stop but it's a long process. I am also having some problems at home so not truly happy at the moment and this is damaging to my relationship because I constantly go to my boyfriend about it. I got a little annoyed because he had let me down on a couple of things he had said and this was what started that conversation off. He said to me that he needs more space and for us not to talk as much because he feels at times like I am suffocating him, and lots of other things to that extent. This really really hurt me knowing that that is how I make him feel, he knows I struggle more but he said he doesn't ever get the chance to really miss me because when we talk so much it feels like I am there constantly and he doesn't get any time for himself, which I feel like he does. I know I need to give him a bit of space now but I really miss him and I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or ways I can make him want to talk to me more again Link to comment
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