twentysix Posted August 13, 2017 Share Posted August 13, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 6 months. He's 29 and I'm 27. We've never said the L word. He's hinted at it in jest, but I know that he thinks it's too soon. For example, one time I thanked him for doing the dishes and he said, "Ahhh, the things you do for the people that you..... really really like!" And smiled at me & winked. Anyway - he picked me up from a concert the other night and I was really drunk and he was sober. When we were falling asleep, I said "I love you" to him. I am not entirely sure if it was a dream or not, but I think it happened. He said, "What did you just say?" And I repeated, "I love you." He asked, "You love me?" I said, "yes" He said something like, "That means a lot, thank you [my name], that's very nice of you to say." And then I fell asleep (unless, please God, that I was already asleep and it was just a dream!!). I assume that he thinks it was just drunken rambling as he didn't mention it the next day (or he just doesn't want to talk about it!) - but neither did I. He did say I was talking in my sleep, but I didn't ask what I said. I do love him, but I probably would rather to have not said anything because I know he's not ready. Help. I don't know if I should mention anything or just leave it? I'm not in a rush to say the words, but I just feel like there's a big fat elephant in the room now. Arghhhhh. I feel stupid. Link to comment
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