Revenge game

[davidclay123]

Hi guys,

I once dated a girl, let's call her B. I cheated on her for A. After a while A broke up with me, I was torn. One month later I got hospitalized and B is the one came and took care of me. After i was discharged, B told me it was over, we're done! I was torn, again. I tried to get us back together but I failed.

The ty thing is, I got over it and whenever I thought I got over it, B came back to screw up my life. I let her do that, taking revenge on me.

I wonder how I could end this.

[Keyman]

How exactly does B come back to screw up your life?

[Unsure82]

You cheated on her. She came back when you needed her to take care of you. She left when you were better because you cheated on her and disrespected her before and would certainly do it again. B is a decent person. You screwed your own self over.

[happyfrank]

Sounds like she cared about you but can't be with you. She wanted to make sure that you were okay and left.

It's hard to be with somebody that broke your heart.

 

Some women will give the relationship another chance and some will not.

 

Sorry.

[DancingFool]

She loved you and genuinely cared about you. You cheated on her and destroyed her. Despite that, she was still there for you when you were down because she is that kind of a decent human being. You don't deserve her or her kindness. I don't know what you are blabbing about revenge. You are the one who effed things up for yourself.

[dave4443]

A lot of people on here have been cheated on and most will say you deserve it

[Annia]

I dunno, maybe stop playing games, take control of your life and don't engage in contact with B?

 

Besides, you cheated on her and even after that she took care of you... so why are you complaining? It seems to me you were the one who screw things up and not her.

[cococly]

She loved you and genuinely cared about you. You cheated on her and destroyed her. Despite that, she was still there for you when you were down because she is that kind of a decent human being. You don't deserve her or her kindness. I don't know what you are blabbing about revenge. You are the one who effed things up for yourself.

 

I thought I was that type of person, but after getting dumped so cruelly, I started to think if I should change how I treat other people.

I picked up my ex when she was down, when she needed to go to the hopsital, etc, At the end, she thought I was boring, with no drama..