DAmari Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 He is almost the same height as me and I told him my height but he has a bad mind. So, when he started calling me short and telling me that I can't believe you are that short--at first I thought he was in denial but not anymore. FYI: he is 5'11 and I am 5'10 1/2. We're basically the same height but I am scared to tell him but he has accepted all of my other flaws I just wonder if he can accept this one, hm. He usually dates short girls but ion know. We have yet to meet and no this isn't the same dude from my previous posts. Link to comment
mustlovedogs Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 What? This post doesn't make any sense. So does he know? What do you have to tell him? Why did you lie again? Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 How many threads have you discussed the situation about your height! I think that you should focus on this problem of lying. Why would you lie about your height? It's not like it's something you can hide. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 What a weird post! Then this is a new guy? Cause in June you told a guy you were 5'9 when in fact you're 5'10 cause he didn't like tall girls? And now this comment... it doesn't make sense. But a tip for the next time, don't lie about your height, then you don't have to make countless threads about it! And you're height is not a flaw, come on! This sounds super insecure and that in itself is an issue Link to comment
DanZee Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Look, your Internet boyfriends are going to find out how tall you are eventually, so be upfront about it. There's plenty of tall guys who want tall girls. I can tell you, I'm only 5'7 and I would probably look funny with a 5'10 girl, especially if she wore heels. And perhaps you should date real guys and not Internet guys because you never know what they're lying about. Link to comment
DAmari Posted August 10, 2017 Author Share Posted August 10, 2017 What? This post doesn't make any sense. So does he know? What do you have to tell him? Why did you lie again? Ugh, here we go again about this guy. And I DIDN'T LIE I TOLD HIM MY REAL HEIGHT FYI!! And no he forgot..read it again and maybe you'll understand instead of scanning over it Link to comment
DAmari Posted August 10, 2017 Author Share Posted August 10, 2017 Look, your Internet boyfriends are going to find out how tall you are eventually, so be upfront about it. There's plenty of tall guys who want tall girls. I can tell you, I'm only 5'7 and I would probably look funny with a 5'10 girl, especially if she wore heels. And perhaps you should date real guys and not Internet guys because you never know what they're lying about. You're right. Link to comment
DAmari Posted August 10, 2017 Author Share Posted August 10, 2017 What a weird post! Then this is a new guy? Cause in June you told a guy you were 5'9 when in fact you're 5'10 cause he didn't like tall girls? And now this comment... it doesn't make sense. But a tip for the next time, don't lie about your height, then you don't have to make countless threads about it! And you're height is not a flaw, come on! This sounds super insecure and that in itself is an issue I am insecure. Did you read the previous posts or just checked for the ones you wanted to see? Link to comment
DAmari Posted August 10, 2017 Author Share Posted August 10, 2017 How many threads have you discussed the situation about your height! I think that you should focus on this problem of lying. Why would you lie about your height? It's not like it's something you can hide. I know it's not. And everybody has lied before so this isn't nothing new. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 I dunno... what's with all these threads about your height and panicking if a guy will accept you or not because you're taller than they expect? Seems very odd and really much ado about nothing, imo. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 I know it's not. And everybody has lied before so this isn't nothing new. So, that makes lying right. Is this how you run your life? Must be challenging to remember all the lyes that you are telling people. Seems much easier to be truthful. And no, not everyone lies. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 I dunno... what's with all these threads about your height and panicking if a guy will accept you or not because you're taller than they expect? Seems very odd and really much ado about nothing, imo. ........................ Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Ugh, here we go again about this guy. And I DIDN'T LIE I TOLD HIM MY REAL HEIGHT FYI!! And no he forgot..read it again and maybe you'll understand instead of scanning over it This is from one of your threads: "Seeing my boyfriend for the first time I was on the phone with my boyfriend earlier today so while we were talking he was also talking to his cousin and, yes this is guy I lied about my height to; I told him I was 5'9 when I really am 5'10 and he is 5'11. Also, this is the guy that my friend introduced me to well kind of, he told her to give me his number after he seen a pic of me and she showed me a pic of him. " You have now lied to us. You may want to get help for your chronic lying. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Holly that's a different guy.... he's the one who didn't want a tall girl and this one thinks she's too short...... go figure.... lol I think the problem is where do you find these guys? Stop lying to anyone. Maybe get counselling! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Holly that's a different guy.... he's the one who didn't want a tall girl and this one thinks she's too short...... go figure.... lol I think the problem is where do you find these guys? Stop lying to anyone. Maybe get counselling! Sara, How are you feeling? I think that it is the same guy. She wrote that late June. I think that it is ridiculous, like she thinks he will not notice her height . I agree with the counseling. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Holly I'm feeling crap! Need another brain surgery cause the pain is even worse and I'm on morfine now.... we're going to remove part of the tumor now and hope it takes the pressure off the nerve... Thanks for asking!! Yeah the entire situation is weird.... even here she says it's a different guy but maybe she's just omitting many details... With all the lying and insecurity and her temper at our criticism she'd greatly benefit from counselling. Hope she'll think about it! Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Ah she in fact made a new thread about the people on here........ Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Holly I'm feeling crap! Need another brain surgery cause the pain is even worse and I'm on morfine now.... we're going to remove part of the tumor now and hope it takes the pressure off the nerve... Thanks for asking!! Yeah the entire situation is weird.... even here she says it's a different guy but maybe she's just omitting many details... With all the lying and insecurity and her temper at our criticism she'd greatly benefit from counselling. Hope she'll think about it! I'm sorry. I thought they did a procedure in March? I don't know how you function. I hope that everything is resolved very soon!!!!! Yeah. So many lies, how does one keep track. Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Ah she in fact made a new thread about the people on here........ I saw. Too bad we can't reply. I wanted to post her contradictory thread. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Yes i had brain surgery in march, an MVD procedure, but unfortunately it didn't work so now we have no choice but to remove a piece of the tumor, high risk due to the location. But i cannot keep with all these meds and now morfine too. So no choice.... I barely function, I'm still on sick leave.... need this to work! Yes i wanted to reply as well but the upside of a solo journal is that no one can have criticism! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Yes i had brain surgery in march, an MVD procedure, but unfortunately it didn't work so now we have no choice but to remove a piece of the tumor, high risk due to the location. But i cannot keep with all these meds and now morfine too. So no choice.... I barely function, I'm still on sick leave.... need this to work! Yes i wanted to reply as well but the upside of a solo journal is that no one can have criticism! My brother had brain surgery with much success. It will be a relief when you no longer have to deal with this horrific pain. I am so sorry that you are dealing with this nightmare. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Thank you, yes I'm hopeful but there are no guarantees it will work, there's also a great risk of complications due to where exactly the tumor is located. Even the doctor is a bit nervous about it but we have come to the point where we don't have a choice anymore. I get way to much meds in my system and living with this pain is not an option, it's become too severe. My brain surgery in march was a great success other than it didn't work, but no complications haha So i trust the doctor but it's scary nonetheless.... My hope is to one day be rid of this terrible pain and then to never have to feel that again... it is indeed a true nightmare! What was your brother's surgery for if i may ask? Hm were kind of hijacking this thread lol.... Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Thank you, yes I'm hopeful but there are no guarantees it will work, there's also a great risk of complications due to where exactly the tumor is located. Even the doctor is a bit nervous about it but we have come to the point where we don't have a choice anymore. I get way to much meds in my system and living with this pain is not an option, it's become too severe. My brain surgery in march was a great success other than it didn't work, but no complications haha So i trust the doctor but it's scary nonetheless.... My hope is to one day be rid of this terrible pain and then to never have to feel that again... it is indeed a true nightmare! What was your brother's surgery for if i may ask? Hm were kind of hijacking this thread lol.... His situation was different, as he had lung cancer which had proceeded the brain. You're right, it is scary. I'm sure it is a hard decision, but I can certainly understand your choice. I would do the same. Link to comment
sara-pezzini Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 wow that's very scary! Best wishes for him and your family! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted August 10, 2017 Share Posted August 10, 2017 Unfortunately, the cancer took him. Not related to the brain surgery. Thank you. Link to comment
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